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A Step-by-Step Beginner's guide

design and build your own custom home
- without making costly mistakes

Design a custom home that truly fits your family’s lifestyle and protects your financial future.

Building a custom home is a once-in-a-lifetime decision.  One overlooked design choice can cost you comfort, money, and flexibility for decades.  I help families plan smarter before those mistakes are finalized in concrete.

LEARN FROM OUR EXPERIENCE...AND OUR MISTAKES

Most homeowners only build their ‘forever’ home once. Over the last fifty years, I’ve been involved in hundreds of projects.

I’m a professional residential designer with a degree in architecture, a former ‘Class A’ licensed homebuilder, and a real estate developer.  I’ve seen what works, what fails, and what quietly drains budgets long after move-in day.

This site exists to protect everyday families from expensive, irreversible mistakes – not to sell you on trends, upsells, or glossy inspiration that ignores real-world consequences.

This is a process that my wife and I have been through ourselves. 

The photograph below shows a house we are using as an example in this blog, one we designed and built ourselves back in 2007.  Unfortunately, our adventure wasn’t successful.  The photograph was taken by our realtor when we moved out.

I hope you will learn from our mistakes.

the most common custom home mistakes homeowners don't realize they're making

Most people start a custom home project the wrong way:

  • They fall in love with a floor plan before understanding how it actually functions.
  • They don’t consider how the house relates to their specific property.
  • They underestimate how early decisions lock in long-term costs.
  • They rely on fragmented advice from builders, designers, and salespeople with conflicting incentives.

By the time problems appear, it’s already too late – the concrete is poured, the framing is up, and the budget is gone.

how early design decisions can lock in lifelong regrets and higher costs

A poorly planned home doesn’t just cost more to build – it costs more every day you live in it.

  • Awkward layouts that never quite work
  • Rooms that look good on paper but fail in real life
  • Mechanical, structural, or layout decisions that limit future flexibility
  • Financial stress caused by preventable change orders

These are mistakes most homeowners didn’t even know to watch for.

A smarter way to plan a custom home before money is spent or concrete is poured

Successful custom home projects aren’t accidental – they’re planned.

Here, you’ll learn how to:

  • Find and evaluate land and feasibility before you buy.
  • Design floor plans that complement your property and support daily life
  • Understand the cost consequences of design decisions.
  • Communicate effectively with architects, builders, and engineers.
  • Avoid common traps that inflate budgets and reduce livability.

Everything is explained in plain language, with real-world examples – not theory.

what you'll learn before you buy land, design your house, set budgets, and break ground

This site and channel walk you through the custom home process in the correct order:

  • Feasibility & land evaluation
  • Budget reality checks
  • Floor plan logic and flow
  • Room-by-room design guidance
  • Builder Coordination and construction planning

This is a professional guide standing beside you before every major decision

free tools and checklists to help you plan your custom home the right way

Protect your custom home investment – for free

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  • Printable room planning tools
  • Step-by-step checklists for early decision making
  • Spreadsheet templates for project budgeting
  • Design red flags most homeowners miss
  • New videos and articles as they’re released

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